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May 1, 2013

Mother’s Day Gift Guide by April Golightly

Filed under: Fashion Blog,Online Shopping — Tags: , , — Nik @ 7:10 pm

Fashionistas,

I asked fellow blogger/attorney April of April Golightly for her take on the best Mother’s Day gifts for this year. April is expecting her first bundle of joy, so she was the perfect mom-to-be to ask about special gifts for one of the most special days of the year. She also asked me to do a guest post for her blog covering fashion for lawyers. Enjoy!

Nik

Mother's Day Gift Guide
Mother’s Day Gift Guide by aprilgolightly featuring a botkier satchel

Guest Post by April Golightly

On Mother’s Day, I normally think of what my mom might like. She does not like flowers or brunch as she has a ton of allergies that prevent her from receiving the normal Mother’s Day gifts. I usually buy her a spa day or anything that I can find in leopard print. I have tried to purchase her purses, but she has her own style and usually does not end up using the ones I choose. I gave her my Louis Vuitton last year and she actually used that for a while.

As a soon to be mother, I am due with my first child on July 15, I am making a Mother’s Day wish list from my point of view this year. Considering that I am in my third trimester, I think I deserve a gift. In fact, I think that all pregnant women deserve at least 4 gifts per pregnancy. One gift for each trimester and then one after the baby is born.

1. The Chic Bag
I have a bag obsession and since it is spring, I would love to carry a new faded jade bag. This one is perfect for a mommy as it can be shoulder bag as well as cross body bag. The hands free option is awesome.

2. The Statement Necklace
When your outfits start to get boring because your weight is fluctuating or you fear that your child will spit up on your Miu Miu top, you can spice things up with a statement necklace. Pick one like this that will go with jeans and a t-shirt, a t-shirt dress, or a basic maxi.

3. The Earrings
If the baby is pulling on your necklace, try a pair of statement earrings instead. Might want to even go clip-on for your ear safety.

4. The Best Flats
My balance is completely off and unless I want to fall, I have to wear flats. I am not kidding…I am the heel queen and could run in most of my shoes. Since the second trimester started, I have fallen twice in heels. To be safe, I am not wearing heels until I have the baby and lose some of this belly. If I am going to wear flats, they have to be fabulous and comfortable. These are awesome. I also went a little crazy at the Tory Burch outlet. The traditional Tory Burch flats do not work for me, but I have wanted a pair for a while. I asked the sales person and she directed me to the most comfortable pairs. Don’t be afraid to ask for what you want.

5. The Custom Necklace
Since I just got married and am sporting new initials, I have been dying to get a necklace with them on it. I would like to get a nameplate of my daughter’s name as well once she is born. Still gotta pick a name!

6. The Trendy Cuff
If you wear no other jewelry as a mother, I think you can rock a nice cuff that does not have any small parts that can be eaten by the baby. This one is so much fun and I want it.

Which Mother’s Day gift do you want?

April 21, 2013

2013: The Year of Dreaming Big

Filed under: Fashion Blog — Tags: , — Nik @ 10:40 pm
Photograph by Natalia Zamarripa, Copyright Thread Conscious 2012

Photograph by Natalia Zamarripa, Copyright Thread Conscious 2012

Dear Fashionistas,

I started Thread Conscious in 2009 during law school as a way to continue creative writing while embracing legal writing.  I also wanted to prove to myself that I wasn’t afraid to step forward and put my work out there, so to speak, for public consumption, and even criticism.  Truthfully, at times I was afraid, but determined to defy fear, knowing that fear only results in paralysis disguised as “good judgment.”

For years, my photo was not anywhere on my blog and I hesitated to write about legal issues in the fashion industry, though fashion and law are passions of mine.  It has been a difficult road to get to where I am now, but finally, I can say that I’m more hopeful, committed and excited about the future of Thread Conscious, and what I can accomplish though it.

2012 was a difficult year for me; a loved one passed away and I found myself searching for a deeper spiritual connection with myself, and friends and family close to me.  I read a book that was on my shelf untouched for years, Eckhart Tolle’s  A New Earth, and I found it both profound and familiar, and a source of comfort and inspiration.  I felt stronger, and braver, than I ever had before, and finally knew that great things lay ahead for me.

One of those great things turned out to be presenting “Laws of Fashion,” a Copyright and Trademark Law workshop at the Independent Blogger Conference in New York this year. (Presentation available here.)  For years, I wanted to attend the IFB Conference but was unable to, for one reason or another.  If I had not gathered my courage and contacted Jennine Jacobs, founder of IFB, I would never have had the incredible opportunity to teach fellow fashion bloggers about intellectual property.  I would never have met all the interesting and talented bloggers there, including Jennine, and deepened my professional blogging network.

This year’s amazing IFB Con experience was a catalyst for me.  It made me a believer in dreaming again, knowing that if you set a goal and make a plan, you can achieve some pretty amazing things.  What the IFB experience taught me was that I want more experiences like that in my life.  Experiences full of energy, creativity and excitement, networking, collaborations and authentic connections to others.

I currently serve as the Chair of the Public Relations Committee of the State Bar of Texas’ Intellectual Property Section, and our main purpose is to provide community outreach throughout Texas in the form of IP seminars to artists, photographers, business owners and more.  It’s a wonderful way for me to stay connected to other entrepreneurs and artists (I write, paint, sing and formerly worked for a major record label), give back to my community and have an excuse to talk about IP as much as possible.  Right now, I’m working as a coach with RampCorp, a wonderful program that helps women entrepreneurs start or take their businesses to the next level.  I’ve been inspired by every woman in the program.

Thread Conscious is also a platform for me to write about fashion, food, tech and anything else that interests me and I think will be helpful to others.  I feel fortunate to have stumbled upon fashion blogging, and I’m dedicated to using Thread Conscious in a way that uplifts others.  I’m still figuring out how best to do that, but I know 2013 started out with such promise, and I can’t wait to see what the rest of the year brings.  Thanks for going on this journey with me.  Namaste.

Sincerely,

Nik

April 9, 2013

IFB Con Blog Roll: Fashion at Your Fingertips

Filed under: Fashion Blog — Tags: — Nik @ 9:13 pm

Dear Fashionistas,

IFB Con in New York this February was such an amazing experience.  In the spirit of sharing and networking, I wanted to do a mega blogroll featuring some of the awesome bloggers I met during the Conference.  Please support these super talented writers, stylists, artists and photographers by visiting their sites and also Liking, Following and/or Subscribing!

Boy Bloggers

Hair Extension Geek : Children with Hair Loss/Locks of Love Charity

STYLISHbyDESIGN : Bespoke Suits and Accessories

Bargain Bloggers

Haute on the Spot

The Stylish City

Beauty Bloggers

Because Style Matters

Chic City Life

City Beauty Guide

Dixie Bits

Fancy Francy

Monae Everett

Skinny Purse

WrkITGirl

Traditional Bloggers

Alix Rose

Bare Bones 

Blah Blah Birds

Fresh Jess

Hey Do You by Yvonne Kai

Living After Midnite

Shik Shin

The Right Shoes

Personal Style Bloggers

Closet Fix

Clothes and Fashion by Aminta Iriarte

Emijaa Jaaemil

Street Style Bloggers

Tres Awesome

Specialty Bloggers

DCFunemployment

Sketchbook Closet : Illustrated Style Journal

Style of Sam : Pharmacist who Loves Fashion and Food (Texas Blogger too!)

Truly{Passionate, Stylish, Me} : Fashion and Design Through the Eyes of a Psychologist

Texas Bloggers

Side Smile Style

Vintage Bloggers

Kan’s Kloset

Story Girl Sarah

January 8, 2013

What Matters Most Now

Dear Fashionistas,

If you’ve been reading this blog for a while, you’ve probably figured out that I’m a huge geek.   Fashion geek, Trademark/Copyright geek, music geek, comic book geek.  Eclectic and perhaps a bit unexpected, these are all topics I’m passionate about.  As I’ve grown, I have learned to embrace my multi-faceted geekiness and I absolutely revel in it now.

Over the last quarter of 2012, I discovered a couple of books that proved incredibly insightful and transformative in my life, titled A New Earth and The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle.  In a nutshell, they show you how to live life to the fullest right now- no need to wait for people or things to make you feel important or complete- you’re all good already.  Now, everyday, I’m fueled by passion to do the things that matter most to me, whether it’s pro bono work, holding a clothing drive for Dress for Success, yoga or blogging.

What am I most grateful for right now?  The ability to silence doubt and push myself to do the things that challenge me.  I’m a very private person and a perfectionist.  Because of this, the thought of starting a lifestyle blog and business was frightening.  There will always be opinions, external and internal, that try to cast doubt on one’s abilities.  I learned to silence the doubt, trust my own judgment and move forward with my goals, with the understanding that failure is a natural occurrence on the road to success that should be embraced, not feared.

I’m so glad I pushed myself to do what I’m passionate about, because Thread Conscious is not only an artistic outlet for me, but also a way for me to support other women-owned businesses via features like Behind the Seams.  The experience also gave me the confidence to open an online boutique, Vintage As A 2nd Language, with a dear friend of mine from law school.  Our partnership allows us to be the trademark geeks we truly are and leverage our love for vintage while building our business on our own terms.

Finally, I’m grateful for all of you, my fellow fashion geeks from around world who read this blog daily, and share a little piece of the web with me.  Thanks for going on this three-year journey of discovery with me.  Here’s to you, and all the other good things 2013 has in store.

XOXO,

Nik

December 27, 2012

Hello 2013 & Happy New Year

Filed under: Fashion Blog — Tags: , , — Nik @ 10:38 pm

Greener Paths

Fashionistas,

I hope that 2012 was a great year for you and that the path you travel in 2013 leads to even greater health, success and happiness! Thanks for the past 3 years and see you in 2013!

XOXO,

Nik

Bird in the Clouds

July 9, 2012

Media Monday: Black Blogger Month Features Patrice Williams of ‘Looking Fly on a Dime’

Photo Credit: lookingflyonadime.bigcartel.com/

May 16, 2012

Thread Thursday: Guest Blogger ‘Streatstyle’ Shares Vintage Treats from Dublin, Ireland

Dear Fashionistas,

I asked friend and fellow blogger Annie Streater over at Streatstyle if she’d go on a vintage hunt around town, i.e. Dublin, Ireland (YAY!)  and report back what she found.  She graciously agreed and you are in for a treat!

Fashionably Yours,

Nik

I’ve lived in Dublin for two years, but somehow I haven’t yet managed to explore the vintage scene here. Apart from the odd flea market here and there, I never thought the city had much to offer, but a quick search on Yelp revealed a multitude of vintage and second hand stores dotted around the city. In fact, it seemed that many of the best ones were located in and around Dublin’s Temple Bar district, better known for its touristy pubs and restaurants than for its one-of-a-kind shopping. So with an open mind and a fistful of cash, I made my way down the cobbled streets to discover what wonders awaited.

1. Eager Beaver

( https://www.facebook.com/EagerBeaverDublin )

This isn’t so much of a vintage shop as a streetwear store selling emo hoodies and peusdo-alternative polka dot prom dresses, but they did have a thrifters’ corner with a small selection of vintage dresses and a rack of second hand overcoats, where I found a couple of gems. Monochrome printed dresses are my Achilles’ heel! This dalmation dress (€29) has a very flattering shape and could be worn to the office, on a first date, or for a night out with the girls.

I also picked up a long, gray wool coat (€30), something I’ve been seeking for a couple of years now. It’s a little on the loose side but I’m sure with a wide belt and a couple of layers underneath, it’ll become a staple of mine next winter!

 2. Lucy’s Lounge

( http://lucyslounge-dee.blogspot.com )

Located just a couple of minutes’ walk away, Lucy’s is a veritable Aladdin’s cave of real vintage gems, second hand high street items, and upcycled pieces, personalised in-store by the staff.

I spent close to an hour in here, and probably could have spent longer. The selection was mostly 70s and 80s, an era that doesn’t fit in with my personal style, but there were a lot of really cool things that I tried on anyway.

I loved the classic seventies style collar on this plaid dress, and the belt was a nice detail. It’s not really my style, though, and as much as I thought about how I could modify it (shorten the sleeves to cap, bring up the hem), at €25 it was a bit on the pricey side for something I didn’t love.

In the end, I left with two pieces: a zebra-motif cardigan (€12), and this gold mini dress (€10). This’ll be a great day-to-night piece, worn with a chunky black knit and lace up boots at the office, then transformed into a disco diva look with a pair of black pumps and a cocktail ring. Very Rachel Zoe, don’t you think?

3. FanciSchmancy

( https://www.facebook.com/pages/FanciSchmancy-Vintage/109511509104469 )

I forgot to get any photos of this place, probably because I was completely preoccupied once the owner, Paul, announced that everything was 50% off. The selection was almost exclusively 80s – a lot of colour blocking, shine, and power dressing. Most of it was too frumpy for me; I tried on a few long dresses, but ended up ditching all but one of them. This black dress is very simple, but I love the eye-catching neckline. I’m looking forward to wearing it with a skinny leopard belt and a bright red lip.

As I left the changing room, I noticed a very colourful bundle of cosy-looking fabric peeking out from underneath a pile of garments that had been set aside. I fished it out and to my utter surprise and delight, discovered a beautiful long wool coat with a fabulous green and purple print. It was so soft and warm that I was already set on buying it, but when Paul told me it was Diane Von Furstenburg and that it was €20, I couldn’t believe it – what a find! This will look great belted with boots, or worn under my other long coat, or heck, even just around the house as a cosy robe! It even has a cool DVF hologram sewn into the label.

With the 50% off, these two pieces came to a total of €32.50 – a great bargain! Paul also recommended a couple of other places in the area, including one which he described as having more of a “grungy” vibe – exactly what I was looking for!

4. Siopaella at 9 Crowe Street

( http://siopaella.com/ )

Definitely more my style. A great selection of 90s, 00s and current day vintage, set in a beautiful, well-laid out store. I could tell right away that I was going to find some good stuff here. Black sheer maxi skirts, velvet cropped tops, plaid shirts… even though I was too young to really live through the grunge era of the 90s, it didn’t matter. I was here now.

The staff were super friendly, and it didn’t take long before a young lad offered to start a room for me. This is something that you don’t get in other stores here – it’s very common in the US, but it was the first time I’d experienced it in Dublin. With more items in hand, I settled in behind the curtain and was immediately charmed by the fish eye mirror on the wall; a novel way to maximize a small fiiting space. Here I’m trying on a grey cropped tshirt and black maxi skirt. I love this look – a great mix of the youthful carefree nature of yesteryear, and a nod to the modern revamped midriff trend. I’m hanging on to this one!

This store has great business sense, as they offer exchange within 7 days – something I’ve never seen before in a vintage place. They also buy, offering you 20% of the final selling price. Of your unwanted designer and high-end pieces. Alternatively you can consign and get 50% of the final price. With so many ways to change up your wardrobe, they definitely live up to their slogan: “recycling and restyling”. Along with that adorable cropped grey tshirt, I picked up a few more great pieces:

I’m not usually into florals at all, but the muted tones of this tshirt (€12) really appealed to me. Worn with denim cut offs or the all-purpose black maxi skirt, this piece can work all year round.

I’ve been keeping an eye out for a nice faux fur jacket for some time now, but most vintage store ones are unflattering or too haggard to really be worth it. This Pixie Lott piece (€58) jumped out at me, and is lightweight enough to wear during the day or on a night out.

One of my favourite finds of the day was this stunning metallic polka dot demi pleated skirt by J. Crew. It was only €26, which for something that probably originally cost at least €50 is a great deal. I’m really looking forward to wearing this with a black tank top and flat leather booties.

5. Om Diva

( https://www.facebook.com/OmDivaBoutique )

The last shop of the day was located about 10 minutes’ walk away, in the George’s Street Arcade. Amazingly, I’ve never stepped foot in this indoor market, despite it being right in the middle of one of my favourite areas of town. Om Diva is a small vintage basement with a sort of 50s Tiki holiday vibe to it. Pastels, sleeveless dresses and  floral prints galore.

The shop was beautifully decorated with retro lamps, vintage photos and even some plastic flamingos! I tried on a couple of printed dresses but as with Lucy’s Lounge, the aesthetic was not really my style, and so the prices were too high to buy what I didn’t adore.

I may have left this last place with nothing, but by no means did I go home empty handed. In total, 3 coats (o hai Irish summer!), 3 dresses, 2 tops, a cardigan and a skirt, all for less than €300. As it turns out, Dublin does have a great vintage scene, and a very eclectic one at that. This was just a handful of the city’s treasure troves, and after the success I had today, I’m sure I’ll be back soon enough to explore the rest!

April 23, 2012

Media Monday: Tumblr Embraces Advertising

Dear Fashionistas,

Crissie Fuller at online blogging bible IFB (Independent Fashion Blogger) reports that Tumblr will start selling advertising units on the “Featured” section of the dashboard as soon as May 2nd.  Two years ago, Tumblr CEO David Karp expressly stated his opposition to advertising on the platform.  However, the site’s rapid growth appears to have dictated a change in attitude.  Though I’m new to Tumblr, I’m not at all surprised by this announcement.  This is the nature of Business: grow, make money, rinse, repeat.

What do you think?  Is this Tumblr’s way of selling out or a smart move?

Fashionably Yours,

Nik

April 2, 2012

Media Monday: Gaultier’s de Young Museum Exhibit featured on Daily by Morin

Photo Credit: Daily by Morin

Dear Fashionistas,

Last year when I spent time in the Bay Area, I visited the amazing  Balenciaga exhibit at the de Young Museum.   Now through August 19, 2012, de Young is featuring The Fashion World of Jean Paul Gaultier: From the Sidewalk to the Catwalk .  Fellow fashion blogger Morin of Daily by Morin has an excellent photo montage of iconic Gaultier pieces you just have to see.  Head over to Daily by Morin to check it out!

Fashionably Yours,

Nik

March 26, 2012

Behind the Seams: Truth and Fashion’s Erica Lynn Young

 

Erica Lynn Young

Fashion Entrepreneur ERICA LYNN YOUNG

 

In this month’s special installment of Behind the Seams: Women’s History Month, we are honored to feature Erica Lynn Young, the power house talent behind the influential plus size model blog Truth and Fashion.  Based in New York, Erica is a young serial entrepreneur, social media strategist, adjunct professor and board adviser with plans in work to launch the full Truth and Fashion website next month (sign up for the email list here!).  Interested in pursuing a career in the fashion industry?  Keep reading as Erica shares some invaluable words of wisdom.

Tell us a little about your educational background; where did you go to college and why did you choose that particular school/career path?

I first went to college at Johnson & Wales University (JWU) in Providence, Rhode Island.  My decision to attend JWU was pretty simple; it was the only college that offered a Fashion Merchandising major and had a competitive volleyball program.  While attending JWU, I heard about a summer program at the Paris Fashion Institute.  I decided to attend the program and it was one of the most life changing months in my life.  It was an extremely intense program with classes in design, merchandising, trend forecasting, product development, art history, and more.  The program, and being in Paris, really opened my eyes to what the fashion industry is.

After hearing one of my professor’s say, “You have to be in New York or Paris to make it in fashion,” I knew I had to move to New York City.  From the recommendation of a friend, I then decided to attend LIM College.  Without LIM College, I know my career would have been different.  The college requires that you complete 3 internships.  I did my final internship at Redcats USA in product development and was hired at graduation.

How did you end up at Redcats USA? (e.g. job board, cold call, approached by the company) 

While I was completing my internship at Redcats USA, I told my boss that I was very interested in a position at the company.  There was actually no position immediately available after I completed my internship so I freelanced with the company for 6 months while finishing up my Bachelor’s degree.

Right before graduation, a position came available and my boss hired me immediately.  Throughout the year I spent with the company, I always made my goals very clear and, along with my drive, I was able to land a position.

What was your most rewarding and most challenging experience there and why?

My most rewarding experience at Redcats was when I was promoted at 24 years old to be a product manager with around $24 million in financial responsibility across 11 departments.  I had been working at the company for a little over 3 years and those years were spent fully devoted to company’s success with countless late nights.  It was wonderful to be rewarded with a new title and added responsibility.

But, with more responsibility comes more challenges.  I took the Product Manager position in 2008 which was the beginning of a horrible economic time for the United States and all apparel companies were greatly struggling.  This was then added on top of a whole new management team for the brand I was working for which only increases the challenges.  With great challenges though come great opportunities and I felt I learned a lot by working for a brand during such a pivotal time.

When and how did you first realize that the plus size market was underserved?

I first realized that the plus size market was underserved while working at Redcats and doing my own research on the market place.  I spent a day going to all the department stores and boutiques that carry plus size clothing.  First, if it was not for the commuting on the subway, this would have only taken a couple of hours.  Then, when you arrive at the department store, you have to find the plus size section which seems to either be in the basement, the top floor, or a corner.

Taking the escalator past the contemporary and designer floors with beautiful displays, space to shop, nice lighting, and hip music, it was extremely easy to see what is lacking in the plus size fashion departments, which seemed to be treated as an afterthought.  From this experience and my corporate background that strictly catered to mass-market fashion, I knew there was a major void in plus size fashion with a contemporary and high-fashion feeling.

Your next endeavor, the stunning and minimalist photo blog Truth and Fashion, aims to “change people’s view on fashion and beauty diversity in body image.”  What inspired you to create this site and what has been people’s reaction thus far?

The photo blog is just the beginning.  It has had such an overwhelmingly positive reaction that I can’t wait to hear what people think of the full website, TruthandFashion.com, when it launches in the next month.  I was inspired to create this website from what I have seen to be an insatiable desire from the consumer to see different body images and standards of beauty in fashion and media.

Truth and Fashion lets go of industry standards by changing the world’s perspective on beauty and fashion.  We unveil daily the most beautiful and talented models in the world who are above the typical model size of 0. We are your source for cutting-edge editorials, the latest videos, fashion campaigns, and daily inspiration.

Truth and Fashion: Model Louise O’Reilly in STELLAR Magazine’s March Issue for “Get Your Rocks On”

Photography: Lili Forberg
Styling: Corina Gaffey
Hair & Makeup: Aimee Murphy

What is your most rewarding and most challenging experience as an entrepreneur and why?

The most rewarding experience is when people love what you have created. Receiving fan feedback on Twitter, Facebook, and over email always helps to make the late nights worthwhile.  I always receive a lot of feedback on the imagery that Truth and Fashion displays.  Fans say that they find the images inspiring, empowering, and helpful in realizing their own beauty.  I believe Truth and Fashion helps to further expand the idea of what beauty is and not place so many limits on it.

I always find the general challenges of being an entrepreneur to be the same: time and money.  You could always use an extra hour in the day and more money to further refine and develop your product or service.  The key to this is you have to know when your product is just right to go live with it.  You can always refine down the road once you receive customer feedback and some initial revenue.

Looking back on your experiences in the fashion industry, what do you know now that you wish you’d known at the beginning of your journey?

That you can take different paths to reach your destination.  I feel like we are told as a kid that if you want to do fashion you have to study it in school.  I do not regret studying fashion in school, but wish I could have experimented more with other areas of study.

For anyone interested in pursuing a career in fashion merchandising, marketing or blogging, what is the most important piece of advice you would give him or her?

Get experience.  Hands down.  Go get an internship, part time job, or start your own blog, do anything you can to get your own experience and learn from it.  Having some solid experience on your resume will make you more valuable to a future employer and even for your own company.

Once you start your own company, there are still opportunities to learn, but mistakes will cost you much more financially.  When you make a mistake with your own company, you may have to sacrifice your own paycheck.  If you can learn through a network of mentors through an internship, part-time or full-time job, it will help to make your own venture more successful.

Photo Courtesy of Erica Lynn Young

Keep up with the latest news about Truth and Fashion on Erica’s Facebook Page and Twitter account.  Be sure to sign up for the Truth and Fashion email list here!

Fashionably Yours,

Nik


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